Mind Your Ps and Qs
How much do you know about British etiquette?
If you have ever been told to ‘mind your Ps and Qs,
it might have struck you as a rather odd thing to
do. In fact, this is old British slang for minding your
‘pleases and thank yous’, and is often used as a way
to remind people to be polite. But how do the British
expect everyone to behave?
1. We love a good queue
Queuing is a big deal for us Brits. In fact, we are so
passionate about queuing that even though we are a
nation that does not like to cause a fuss, anyone who
pushes into a queue will cause people to become upset
and may even start an argument. Always join the back
of a queue and wait your turn.
2. We never put our money where our mouth is
Wealth is a subject that can make some people feel
uncomfortable in the UK and we tend not to discuss it
amongst our friends. In fact, it is seen as impolite to ask
someone how much money they earn in a year.
3. We can’t stomach bad table manners
Unless you are told otherwise, it is common practice
to wait until everyone’s food has been served before
you begin eating your own. Most importantly, under
no circumstances should you talk with your mouth full
or slurp your soup. If you do, you may not be invited to
dinner again.
4. A firm grip goes a long way
A good, firm handshake is a common way to greet
someone and shows that you are a polite and confident
individual. However, be sure not to make your grip too
firm or you will crush someone’s hand in the process.
5. Chivalry isn’t dead
Chivalry is often associated with English gentlemen
and means extending your help to people who you
think might need it. Giving up your seat for an elderly
passenger, opening the door for the person behind you
or offering to carry a heavy bag for a lady if it looks as
though she is struggling are just a few examples.
6 . We ALWAYS mind our Ps and Qs
Many people from outside of the UK will find it strange
that we say please and thank you as much as we do, but
it is an important part of English speech. Remembering
to say please and thank you is vital in all social
interactions, whether it’s to a friend, a host family, or a
waitress.
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